JUNE 2ND GENERAL ASSEMBLY
Moderator: Kalisa.
Stacker:
Time Keeper:
Peace Keeper:
Notes/Minutes Taker: Dennis de la Vega.
INTRODUCTION TO ‘SMASHING PATRIARCHY’ [THEMED GA].
[UPON ARRIVAL ALL ASSEMBLY AT THE PARK (SQUARE) ARE TOP OF STEPS UNDER TREES LISTENING TO KALISA FACILITATING AS MODERATOR AN INTRODUCTION THEY LISTEN INTENTLY].
?:?? pm, Kalisa: ...?? [KALISA GIVES INTRODUCTION... ...(?Day 246?... ...?Principles of Solidarity?... ...?Agenda?)... ...[AND THE FLOOR TO SHAKTI].
TWO PERSONAL STATEMENTS OF NONVIOLENCE
4:23 pm, Shakti: ...I believe nonViolence is something that womyn are really good at...
4:23 pm, Neil: [IT SEEMS HE IS UNAWARE HE IS TO GIVE A PERSONAL STATEMENT OF NONVIOLENCE OR HE IS JUST DOING WHAT HE WANTS (nts: IDK)]...I came all the way from Denver... ...been all the way up the coast of California... ...my direct experience I've been teargassed... ...shot with bullets... ...we kept doing this... ...the Denver Police Department kept declaring... ...'Encumberance'... ...so we started building what's called 'hot pockets'... ...I left with three other people... ...a lot of other people ended up with Occupy Oakland... ...I can't speak for women but... ...definitely for 'equal rights'... ...while it was snowing we sat [DEMONSTRATES]... ...but it's considered a nuisance... ...a thousand people, directing a lot of people... ...[KALISA REMINDS: A statement of NonViolence]... ...how do we keep people calm, direct... ...what's happened...
4:27 pm, Amy: ...Womyn's voices... ...a lot of womyn are... ...intimidated... ...patriarchy within Occupy... ...because we're living in patriarchy... ...our brothers need to realize... ...they are active... ...they are participating in patriarchy... ...the whole point is that womyn are not public property... ...our bodies belong to us... ...we need to eradicate this... ...that's why were here... ...it's hilarious because I mentioned... ...women need a 'safe place' for womyn... ...talked to... ...she said her boss is going to [provide] a ?tent?... ...You guys might know Fiona Apple... ...expressed that I've been raped by a person whom I a call an Occu??... ...please look at the womyn here not as 'available for your' viewing pleasure... ...a lot of women come in here and they leave because they... ...they say [EXPRESSES MEN'S SEXIST COMMENTS]... ...Womyn's places are in the movement [CHEERS].
4:32 pm, A Man: ...there are at least 30 women who are raped in Downtown LA...
4:33 pm, Beth: ...all three of those job situations put me in a bad space... ...told "You can't do this..."... ...I've had knives thrown at me... ...food thrown at me... ...working in the kitchen getting abused by the men... ...and especially in Wrestling... ...the women get paid less... ...we get demeaned by the guys... ...we get subjected to the locker room talk... ...I'm not taking any shit from the guys anymore... ...every time... ...the Sam Resnick situation... ...us ladies have some alarm systems... ...we see and feel things because of the... ...and sometimes the things you say or do to us... ...don't say "Oh, your're a girl you can't..."...
4:36 pm, Mike, Occupy Los Feliz: ...we are starting a campaign... ...I would like to see it go national... ...[WIELDS A SIGN: Occupy July Buy Made in America or Buy Nothing in July]...
4:38 pm, A Woman: I've been politically active since 2008... ...noticed since day one, there's major ?sex? ?Phobia?... ...I'm ?not? straight. I love womyn... ...possibly development struggle... ...people who are ... ...running society... ...it doesn't benifit that their wives... ...their womyn... ...and actually have to call it out... ...kick that shit out of our movement... ...they don't belong here... ...why that mentality does not belong here, you don't belong here... ...The One Percent, the Capitalists need us to cook their meals... ...not just means of production but reprodoction... ...we are the ones owning production and reproduction.
4:42 pm, Ed: Why am I here?... ...about Smashing Patriarchy... ...Beth said... ...you were horrified by what you were seeing... ...it's not good to be horrified and not do anything about it... ...I'm calling upon all my brothers... ...guys don't pull this shit off when there are ladies... ...but when they're doing this... ...that is the time to call them out.... ...women's issues and all the guys were really on board with it... ...dorp that GD patriarchy and get rid of it... ...Oh and my brother that was up here holding up a sign [THE MAN HOLDS IT UP AGAINN]...
4:45 pm, Harriet: ...retired from General Motors... ...title 7 of the Civil Rights Act... ...law doesn't get passed unless the womyn are in the streets... ...if you didn't get one of these I will hand one to you.... ...People tend to assume that verbal hostility will come to them in obvious form... ...most verbal hostility is far less obvious... ...most men don't realize it if they are unaware of it... ...What's the hostility? But as 'womyn' they are... ...to this...
4:47 pm, Tuck: ...here to learn from womyn what has been happening... ...aware of my own oppression of my wife... ...also aware of interrupting agendas with... ...their own agenda... ...that we can call those things out right here and right now... ...when there is a womyn's agenda there seems to be this other agenda...
4:49 pm, Freedom: I'm here today because 'patriarchy' is something that I am willing to learn everything about... ...my daughter... ...Code Pink... ...Women for Peace... ...a space that is being created for womyn to have these spaces... ...Occupy Wall Street calling their own Femme GA... ...Wall Street is talking about doing it monthly... ...encouraging as many... ...as possible... ...going "Ya, we really need this...". and get our movement to have gender equality... ...I just open myself as a resource... ...in sisterhood...
4:51 pm, Donald: ...Rick... ...some statistics and he got shot down... ...people need to look at statistics and know who their... ...what statistics that have been gathered and put... ...by the public... ...verified... ...probably crimes that have been reportoed versus... ...some ot them did happen and some did get convicted and some others... ...they don't specifically say "rape" but they say "forcible rapes". I guess their talking about "forcible rapes" that have been convicted...
4:54 pm, Rachel: ...some of them say "Hey, he's a guy what is he doing here?"... ...and then my ex boyfriend... ...and not have to deal with a guy and listen to him say "Hey..."... ...in fact we have a show coming up on... ...It's called 'Iced Stories and Iced Tea', the 9th of June all is welcomed. you'll have stories of women who come from all types of walks of life who... ...you'll get it all there... ...my dad he's... ...mormon. You know how Mormons believe in multiple wives... ...I like playing with guys but I like kissing girls too... ...I'm so sick of it. I'm sorry I've got beautiful double Ds but you don't have to say "Hey, can I touch it?"...
4:58 pm, Jonathan: ...many of the points that were made here... ...rape and all that stuff, that's terrible... ...I'm not a woman but if you look at how the system goes... ...you can have women bosses... ...black... ...or gay bosses... ...it is not that... ...it is more that in this Capitalist System... ...and the only way that we can look at this is that if you have theory and look at this proportional to the people's demands...
5:00 pm, A Woman: I consider everyone here, my family.... ...to empower and not to... ...talk a little about what happened last night
5:01 pm, Jessica: ...there was a film shoot... ...and he put his hands around her neck and she was arrested... ...when a woman is yelling or screaming... ...we have to assess that... ...I feel that my friend was and she went to... ...and the police state comes in and they arrest the victim... ...if it's anyone that's off the street and
5:03 pm, Another Woman: Also, a lot of the other people were... ...that she was yelling and screaming and... ...some men or group of men like to... ...the situation by calming her down... ...I believe a lot of that has to do with 'patriarchy'... ...if we see people -a gentleman yelling at a woman-... ...and we need to support her... ...it was very disturbing yesterday that she had to go confront the guy who assaulted her by herself...
5:05 pm, Jessica: ...we need to make this space horizontal... ...I'm not here to respect power trips...
5:05 pm, Barry: ...Just before moving to Los Angeles... ...building... ...I was asked "Do you have a sister..."... ...The One Percent make more money, especially in Georgia... ...it wasn't that whites were getting more,,,People working a job making a living have every right to have... ...If people aren't able to work in... ...If people... ...abortion rights, equality, and fighting discrimination makes it an issue for everybody...
5:98 pm, Vanessa: ...patriarchy is the 'act' the ?? and telling people that they know better... ...this movement has the potential to... ...tell people what they need and want... ...it's not that they assume they know what people want...
5:09 pm, Dele: by saying that "Place of the woman is in the movement"... ...every time a front line is created with equal women... ...all the privileges that I got as the first male in my African family, I wish... ...we are not going to succeed in...
5:11 pm, Lulu: ...I'm not fully educated in patriarchy... ...learned to not take shit from a man... ...we need to create a space where we all can talk about it... ...this is a beautiful space... ...it is a subculture... ...I've been blessed... ...I would like to see more males here, more younger males... ...if you see your brother... ...I took a bus here... ..."I have to take a bus here."... ...and he was educated... ...first he said "Women are emancipated.." [EXPRESSES ANGER]... ...I bummed a cigarette off a guy... ...he asked "What does this story mean?"... ...story about a 'torch' He's like, "if the torch goes out she dies"... ...it's about parenting and... ...another issue is that 'Why womyn need to collect together" you can say "You are not a bitch"...
5:15 pm, Kalisa: [ON EMERGENCIES]... ...Does anybody know... ...an act of violence against one of our sisters... ...is there any woman that is homeless at this assembly that needs to say...
5:17 pm, Beth: ...If you don't have the day off Monday take a sick day... ...because they're going to be talking about park hours. Monday, City Hall, 10 am, BE THERE!
5:18 pm, John Waiblinger: ...I passed out a flyer on trans ??? 'trans' in the... ...'gender binaries' how we ?determing what is male and what is female... ...[ANNOUNCES AN EVENT]... transgender individuals have more violence... ...against them... ...we'd really like to see more participation in this...
5:20 pm, Kalisa: ...I was proposing International Women's Strike of... ...?2013?... ...male allies and how we could make... ...girls get together and guys get together... ...there are subconscious levels that we don't even know about... ...we have to really give a shout out... ...The only way we're going to smash patriarchy... ...degrading womyn... ...it hurts to... ...How is patriarchy not jsut a woman's issue? How is...
5:24 pm, John Waiblinger: ...I think the men need to take responsibility... ...about the men's circle that we've created... ...invite some of the men that haven't participated in the men's circle to come and join us.... ...men, especially white... ...men... ...a story about an anthropologist... ...and "fag" is one of the worst things that you can call a man... ...and homophobia... ...[CONTINUES READING AGAIN] Women of OLA have hoined together to address how our culture and the political system we reside in impacts womyn's
5:30 pm, Ryan: an how we deal with the... ...deconstructing a dominant... ...
5:30 pm, A Man: being able to confront things that has been happening here in public... ...there is oppression happening, dominance happening that is not moving us forward.
5:31 pm, Omar: ...racism within the patriarchy... ...within the systemics capitalism... ...racism has always played a role within the patriarchy of men... ...they said that a kid with 'descriptions'... ...it was crazy. I got handcuffed [HANDS BEHIND HIM]... ...racism is something that we all need to think about... ...of patriarchy... ...racism plays a big role in all of these issues.
5:33 pm, Eddie: ...when I discussed in the group... ...and with other men... ...it's like "no, this is not femininist ?Policy?"... ...of sexism and rape system... ...I would like to see a lot more men stepping up and... ...
5:35 pm, Kalisa: They've had six meetings... ...Womyn have less time... ...they have [NAMES EXTRA DUTIES]... ...this is a woman [POINTS OUT SHAKTI] who is working who has two children who is hunger striking... ...understand that this woman is working... ...she is... ...a means... ...at this point in the assembly, this is the place that I want to break in...
5:37 pm, Shakti: ...I'd like to have is a Women's Collective... ...and also a Womyn's Collective HomeSchooling... ...our children raised the way that we want them to be raised...
GENDER SEPARATED DISCUSSION GROUPS
5:38 pm, Kalisa: the men: How is patriarchy not just a women's issue?... ...For the womyn: What specifically should we do?... ...this is... ...the kind of multi-tasking that we have to do... ...
7:04 pm: ASSEMBLY RETURNS
7:05 pm, Kalisa: Mic! Check!... ...The womyn are ready to [INAUD.]... ...
7:11 pm, Kalisa: We womyn asked that the men come up here and... ...listening... ...for the guys to admit and open those wounds... ...we ask that... ...some respect... ...this opportunity to tell you about what is happening... ...rape is happening in the tents... ...also there is violence... ...if a woman asks for a tent and she doesn't get a tent, that's patriarchy right there... ...treated as 'cute', they got treated as cute... ...and the men make it harder on each other to call each other out... ...[DISPLAYS HAND SYMBOL: This is a point of ovaries... ...if a woman is getting... ...this is a point of ovaries... ...throws up a point of ovaries... ...clear the space. Maybe move the guys out that are intimidating... ...]... ...authoritative MicChecks... ...the voices are deeper... ...this is true--I've dissected animals... ...when you say [YELLS MASCULINE-LIKE] MIC! CHECK!... ...you guys have two... ... that is as objects or invisible... ...none of those is acceptable... ...invisible! Or objectified! None of those is acceptable... ...we're organizing a 'slut walk'... ...it's approaching curfew too... ...[SLAPS HER PELVIS] We've got one of these... ...[A WOMAN INTERJECTS] we have less time. We have more worked...
7:19 pm, Amy:
Beth: I have a point of contention! ...some things that have upset me... ...I had one of my friends accused of rape... ...I've had many men sexually assaulted... ...and what happened when I went over there... ...to talk... ...I was attacked by this woman's group... ...women [SHOWING THEIR]... ...and if you're not a part of this assembly every day... ...we need to listen to all feelings... ...we have two people who are identified as female, who were born female... ...I'm a girl who doesn't hang out with a lot of other girls. All of my friends are a lot of other men.
7:22 pm, AnaBella: ...with what Beth said... ...I'm really sorry that that's the way that you feel... ...now we do have perpetrators here... ...a girl who was harassing somebody... ...she was using drugs... ...that's not fair. If you want to discuss everything and... ...these things out... ...Everything begins with ourselves... ...If I don't respect me... ...this is bullshit. It has to stop.... ...People when they get in drugs or alcohol, they switch. It all has to stop and it is not right.
7:24 pm, <: ...I feel that... ...should have been inclusive... ...this is not about 'men' and 'womyn'... ...as a woman I feel that we should bring all the discussions together... ...We're being biased... ...[AMY INTERRUPTS: ...and 'Smashing Patriarchy' this is that one time... ...and you saw somebody get up and... ...
7:376 pm, Kalisa: ...we did put in a lot of time into this agenda... ...also it was on the FaceBook thing... ...that was the point of a lot of this Assembly... ...women have to go... ...womyn have a lot of times that we have to go and... ...now if any female is interested, I know that you didn't choose to participate in our discussion... ...
7:28 pm, <: ...there's issues of harassment... ...point I want to get to... ...if you unravel everything, it all comes down to one thing... ...and I know that's what I want to see in this Assembly is men coming together with women... ...that's how I want each... ... to treat each other.
7:29 pm, A Man: ...strongly about equal rights... ...the... ...needs to be discussed... ...and courteously... ...Smashing Patriarchy is not about... ...one gender against another... ...also that word 'patriarchy' should not be used... ...I've encountered women that have tried to use patriarchy and misogyny against me... ...that takes everything away from... ... that
7:31 pm, Jessica: I agree that we all want horizontal space... ...we need spaces that we can collect with one another, and then we can come back... ...this is not about 'who to blame'...
7:32 pm, A Man: ...for example my mom has two jobs and she has to take care of kids so... ...technically I'm homeless... ...but the important thing is that we need to unite against... ...thing... ...Instead of fighting against each other against one thing...
7:34 pm, Jessica: ...I have... ...some men with whom I associate... ...and yes we should have some type of space outside of here... ...and we kind of found this dynamic... ...and you got here late [POINTS OUT <]...
7:35 pm, Jessica: [LUCAS INTERRUPTS]
7:36 pm, Amy: ...if you feel like somebody is doing a character assassination you have to say that... ...you do need to check your privilege... ...it's that we want to hear our [womyn's] voices... ...we did have some man shouting throughout the entire GA...
7:36 pm, Lucas: ...he was talking to him and he was pointed out... ...my tent... ...I saw a woman harassed all the time... ...The biggest... ...was people coming up to me and telling me "Hey, I'm a sovereign individual, don't tell me what to do", and "I could do what I want"... ...and at Occupy that has been the strongest theme that I have heard...
7:39 pm, >: ...I would like to say this has been a bunch of women wanting to get together and talk about 'patriarchy'... ...if a lot of black people wanted to get together and talk about racism there would not be white people telling them what... ...If a lot of ?? People wanted to get together and talk about ?? there wouldn't be...
[YELLING AMONGST EACH OTHER AGAIN]... ...[AN OWWM SESSION ENSUES]... ...[JOHN WAIBLINGER CENTER TAKES THE FLOOR TO CALM ALL ASSEMBLY]... ...doesn't think that I'm right and everybody else is wrong. [LEAVES THE CIRCLE CENTER, OMAR TAKES CENTER].
7:44 pm, Omar: ...Dele please one report back.... ...please! Discriminating one person is like discriminating our mother... ...that is just one comment that... ...in the first place... ...cultural theory and cultural intervention as well as one thing that I can't think of right now is...
7:46 pm, Barry: ...black organization criticized for his... ... he said "Until we... ...and that what we can get done is support our... ...our struggle"... ...but it is perfectly good and perfectly overdue to have a Women's Circle and ... ...to have the men not agree with it...
7:49 pm, Kalisa: ...prepared a GA... ...and to not have someone say that you're not interested... ...you were given the privilege of time... ...nobody from the womyn's group had a chance to talk because we... ...we gave the men a chance to talk... ...for you guys to give us a chance to talk. It's not that much to ask... ...I know you guys are hurt... ...that's growing...
7:49 pm, Kalisa: ...I think things are... ...about men telling us what our patriarchy is all about... ...it's hard to really reach out there... ...look it, I'm the only woman standing up here talking... ...at this Smashing Patriarchy GA... ...If you want to start your own Smashing Patriarchy GA... ...
7:52 pm, ?Dave?: ...said "This is our chance to..." I saw 'twinkie’ fingers all over the place...
7:53 pm, Another Man: ...this is a very heated topic... ...[TALKING CONVERSATION TO MY RIGHT, THE MAN SPEAKING IS INAUDIBLE]... ...[THEY'RE STILL TALKING].
7:55 pm, [CONVERSATIONS EVERYWHERE, SPEAKER INAUDIBLE].
7:56 pm, ...[SAME MAN AS 7:53 PM IS STILL TALKING].
7:57 pm, AnaBella: ...sometimes as a woman I see these Radical Womyn I feel they want to castrate the men...
7:58 pm, A Woman: ...because men use their voices, use their body language,... ...yes, you can wave your hands... ...and I've felt... ...you are not listening... ...we are here to tell you we are not equal because you do that to us... ...a safe place is absolutely necessary... ...I haven't spoken at a GA for about three months [BETH (smiling): She has PTSD, don't yell at her!, ANABELLA: She's yelling at me.]...
8:00 pm, An Other Man: ...so that's what's more important... ...that situation and move on... ...[INAUDIBLE]... ...in all reality there is freedom of expression... ...individual rights... ...you have freedom of speech... ...[ANOTHER MAN INTERJECTS YELLING: When you cross somebody's space...]...
8:03 pm: [LAST PERSON ON STACK IS AN INAUDIBLE MAN]... ...[HOWEVER HIS LAST LINE...] You cannot smash patriarchy with patriarchy. I'm sorry. [HE GETS AN APPLAUSE (?BY SOME WOMEN?, ?THE MEN?, AND ?SOME WOMYN?].
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